Sample Report
Hidden Messages
Princess Diana of Wales
July 1, 1961 7:45 PM
Sandringham, England
INTRODUCTION
We are all looking for unconditional love. Most of us never got it. When we fall in love we think, "Now, finally, here is someone who will give me the (unconditional) love I've always wanted."
So we marry. Then it starts---because we're not programmed for love. Instead, we are programmed to duplicate our parents' relationship. Because of this programming, even if we found someone who loved us unconditionally, we would have to push them away.
How can we attract what we are not programmed to receive? We can't---until we take a conscious look at what we are programmed to attract. Only then can we change our lives.
This program is designed to help us do just that.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:
Sun 9 Can 40 Pluto 6 Vir 03
Moon 25 Aqu 02 N. Node 28 Leo 11
Mercury 3 Can 12 Asc. 18 Sag 25
Venus 24 Tau 24 MC 23 Lib 03
Mars 1 Vir 39 2nd cusp 29 Cap 49
Jupiter 5 Aqu 06 3rd cusp 18 Pis 22
Saturn 27 Cap 49 5th cusp 16 Tau 03
Uranus 23 Leo 20 6th cusp 3 Gem 18
Neptune 8 Sco 38
Tropical Placidus Daylight Savings Time observed
GMT: 18:45:00 Time Zone: 0 hours West
Lat. and Long. of birth: 52 N 50 0 E 30
Aspects and orbs:
Conjunction: 10 Degrees
Opposition : 10 Degrees
Square : 10 Degrees
Trine : 10 Degrees
Sextile : 7 Degrees
HIDDEN MESSAGES
PROGRAMMING
She was an extremely beautiful woman in her mid-thirties. She was also an extremely successful business woman---equal to or better than many men in her profession. She'd come to me for a consultation because she was considering remarrying. Although her two previous marriages had been unsuccessful, she longed for a man with whom she could be happy. She was in my office because she honestly wondered if that were possible.
In the course of the consultation, she shared with me that her mother was successful in her career. Message: BE A SUCCESS IN YOUR CAREER. She also shared that her mother had been married several times, so she was programmed for multiple marriages. Each time my client married, her mother encouraged her to leave her husband. Her mother's message was: MARRY, BUT DON'T STAY MARRIED. As a child, my client saw her mother win every argument with each of her husbands. Message: ARGUE WITH MEN AND WIN. My client's father was strong, but distant and unaffectionate. Message: MEN ARE DISTANT AND UNAFFECTIONATE. My client created this situation in her marriages and felt unloved by her husbands. Each of her stepfathers put up a good fight, but ultimately they left. Message: MEN WILL PUT UP A GOOD FIGHT AND THEN LEAVE.
The combination of verbal and non-verbal messages produced a woman who resented men, yet kept turning to them to make her happy. Because she was programmed for marriage to be stormy and her husbands to leave, she created just that. She married strong men and wound up emasculating them. She was looking for love, but her programming would not let her keep it.
Her fiancé played right into the program. He was stubborn and determined. He was not a success in his career, although he had great potential. Each time he came close to success, he'd fall short. His ambitions were high, but he became a dilettante. He made a great impression, but had no money. His programming explained it all. At one point in time, his father had been very important and successful in his career. When the young man was just a boy, his father had been nominated for an extremely prestigious award. Winning this award would have meant financial security for the rest of his life. Unfortunately, another nominee was selected as the winner. From that point on, the son was programmed to COME CLOSE, BUT FALL SHORT, and that's exactly what he did in every area of life.
His parents had not gotten along. His proud, stoic father had given him the message that THE WOMAN SHOULD PUT THE MAN FIRST. He also felt that MEN WERE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN WOMEN.
These two were programmed for each other. Here was a chauvinist up against a powerful woman; a business failure up against a business success. Neither one, however, was programmed for a warm, loving relationship, though that's what they both wanted. When faced with a situation like this, the first reaction might be to discourage a marriage, since it seems doomed to failure. Yet, these two people were attracted to each other precisely because they could give one another what each was programmed to receive. And, in spite of their programming, they loved one another. This love could, if they chose, be the impetus to help them see and release their programming and create a warm, loving relationship.
This situation occurs all the time. Our hidden messages are so deeply ingrained in our subconscious that we respond to them unknowingly. For example, if one of your hidden messages is that YOU CANNOT BE HAPPY WHILE A FAMILY MEMBER IS UNHAPPY, you will find that you are never happy because there is always someone who needs your help. Even if you are miles away, just knowing that a relative might be unhappy about something can upset you. After awhile, this message can be triggered simply by the suggestion of happiness--as soon as you feel good you have to feel bad. This totally destroys your enjoyment of life.
Another common message is that YOU WILL NEVER BE AS GOOD AS YOUR FATHER (OR MOTHER, OLDER SISTER, YOUNGER BROTHER, ETC.). If you received this message, you will see to it that you fall short of your goals so as not to surpass him. If he has not been much of a success in his life, where does that leave you?
We have been told that if we will live up to the potential indicated in the natal chart, our lives will work. Why, then, are so many lives not working? The answer is simple: they ARE working, or at least the hidden messages are working, running our lives. By knowing what these messages are, we can be free to be our highest and best, to be limitless.
YOUR FATHER'S MESSAGES
THE SUN
Your father takes you from the security of the home and teaches you how to act in society. He helps you form your public image, the face you want the world to see. The Sun represents your father.
Sun in Cancer:
Your father taught you to protect yourself, your home and your family. He taught you to take care of your own security needs, and to either give and/or receive nurturing. You may both be moody and sensitive.
Sun in 7th house:
Your father's message is to find a mate, get married and make that person the center of your life. The catch to this message is that HE is to be your mate, which makes it difficult to commit to any other relationship. If you are married, you will treat your mate like your father. You are programmed to give and put the other person ahead of yourself, which means you will attract people who take and put themselves first.
Sun in hard aspect to Mercury:
Your father has a one-track mind, making it hard for him to concentrate on more than one thing at a time. He can only discuss what is of interest to him. You are the same way. He does not give you enough space to be objective about him.
Sun in soft aspect to Neptune:
Your father taught you spirituality and selflessness. He is kind and willing to serve. You see only the best in people because you see only the best in him--and he taught you to see only the best in yourself. He is an inspiration to you.
YOUR MOTHER'S MESSAGE
THE MOON
The most important person in your early years is your mother. Because the Moon rules both the mother and the subconscious, her influence reaches you on the deepest levels. It might be said that since the subconscious is the repository of all past-life experiences, your mother triggers this memory, which is why her influence is so strong.
Your mother's main message is to look for emotional security. The house in which the Moon is placed natally indicates that area of life in which you hope to find this security. You received this message either directly or indirectly. She told you where to look for it, and you spend the rest of your life looking for it where she said it would be. The sign in which the Moon falls describes your mother, as do the aspects to the Moon. The aspects also tell you if it will be easy or difficult to find the security you seek. Because the Moon is changeable, the promise of emotional security is elusive. Perhaps this is why you keep returning to the place where it is supposed to be, hoping it will be there this time.
Keep in mind that these messages are not necessarily verbal. You can receive them from her actions as well as her words; by her presence as well as her absence.
Moon in Aquarius:
Your mother is unusual and may feel she was born before her time. She taught you to be your own person, but you may feel caught between two worlds: old and young, traditional and non-traditional, etc. You may be pulled between doing what you want to do versus doing what you feel you ought to do. At times she can be very traditional, even rigid. At other times, she can let it rip. She is truly eclectic. You may often ask yourself, "Am I crazy or is the world crazy?" This is because, while you love people, you don't need them. Most people don't feel this way and, as a result, will tell you there is something wrong with you. They don't understand that when the group is happy, you are happy. Herein lies your security.
Moon in 2nd house:
Your mother gave you a strong emotional need for money. Money may have been important to her. You transferred your security from mother to money. She acts as if she were your possession, and you treat her as such. Because the Moon is changeable, her message may be that your finances---and security---will go up and down, which can increase your insecurity and cause you to try to hang on to them more tightly. Notice what you do with your money when you're feeling insecure or unsettled. That is part of her message. Your true freedom comes from letting go of your emotional attachment to money and possessions.
Moon in soft aspect to Mercury:
Your mother is able to express herself clearly, and there is good communication between the two of you. This extends to communication with all women and the public in general. There is harmony between your conscious and subconscious minds, giving you the ability to articulate your thoughts well.
Moon in hard aspect to Venus:
Your mother does not really know how to show love and may give you things (gifts, food, praise) instead of love. This creates the concept of compensation: if you don't feel loved, you'll eat, spend money or indulge yourself in some way. This aspect can manifest as laziness. You can attract self-indulgent, even lazy people to you.
Moon in hard aspect to Mars:
There is a conflict between you and your mother. You hold much anger, hostility and/or unresolved resentment toward her. Neither of you can forgive the past. This carries over into your relationships with everyone else, making you competitive, argumentative, and retaliative. Your emotions are right below the surface and can be easily triggered. Your need for a sexual outlet is strong.
Moon in hard aspect to Uranus:
Your mother is unpredictable and you never know what to expect of her. She taught you to rebel. You both want freedom. As a result, relationships can end suddenly and unexpectedly. You attract self-willed, erratic people to you.
Moon in hard aspect to North and South Nodes:
Poor rapport with your mother and women in past lives hinders your relationships with them in this one. The tendency to emotionally hang on to the past can prevent success.
MESSAGES FROM AUTHORITY FIGURES
Saturn is reality and often, restriction. In the natal chart, it can represent your mother, father, grandparents, family ---anyone who imposes a restrictive influence on your life and tries to teach you reality through discipline.
Saturn in Capricorn:
The authority figures in your life are hard-working, practical and very disciplined. Prestige, status and money are important to them and they taught you to be concerned with appearances. They taught you to go after power.
Saturn in 1st house:
The authority figures in your life taught you to assume responsibility early, making you feel older than your years. The message was, "Be a big boy/girl." By assuming your family's responsibility you become serious and build a wall around yourself. You model your behavior after the authority figures in your life, making you distant, authoritative and possibly, unapproachable.
Saturn in soft aspect to Venus:
The authority figures in your life gave you a secure feeling of being loved. As a result, you are loyal in love and able to maintain a long-term relationship. You do not take love lightly. When you love, you willingly assume your responsibility for the relationship. You are not looking for wild, exciting love, but steady, reliable love.
Saturn in hard aspect to Jupiter:
You experience conflict between doing what you want to do and doing what you feel you ought to do. Even when enjoying yourself, you feel limited. This message came to you from the authority figures in your life who would pull you back when you were enjoying yourself. Their concept of God involves fear. This can curb your enthusiasm since the implication is that if you have too much fun, God will punish you---there is a price to pay for all happiness--every silver lining has a cloud.
PLUTO
Pluto is another indicator of your mother's ---and sometimes your grandmother's---message. Pluto represents total change, control, and transmutation. It is the all-or-nothing planet. Pluto deals with all the mysteries of life: life itself, where it originates, where it goes when it leaves this plane. Pluto and the aspects it makes in your chart describe your mother's message about and your attitude towards sex.
Pluto's house placement indicates where there can be a power play with your mother, where you will both try to dominate and control, and where you can bring about a total transformation. You control because you don't trust. You don't trust the people who rule the house in which Pluto falls.
While Pluto represents your mother's message, it can also represent your grandmother's. Use whichever word applies to you.
Pluto in Virgo:
Pluto in Virgo gives you a different attitude about work, health and how to serve others.
Pluto in 8th house:
Your need for power, control and dominance is extremely strong. You will not permit yourself to make a mistake, but must do everything perfectly. You have a strong need to vindicate yourself, but won't waste your energy on small skirmishes. With you it's all or nothing, so when you wage war you are willing to fight to the death. Your sexual drives are powerful, but can control you unless they are directed into constructive areas. Your interest in all the secrets of life and your strong psychic powers make you an excellent detective and researcher. It is important that you understand your mother's enormous control over you, for she is the one who gave you all these messages.
Pluto in soft aspect to Sun:
Good psychic and emotional bonds between your parents at the time of your birth gives you a positive role model. They taught you to assume command without abusing power. They taught you to get along with those in authority as well as those who follow your lead. You can be a pioneer. You are magnetic and psychic, and get along well with both men and women.
Pluto in soft aspect to Mercury:
You and your mother are able to communicate without speaking, the psychic bond between you is so strong. You are this way with others as well. You can spot truth from falsehood and are a natural detective. Your intuition is so much a part of you that you do not see it as unusual.
Pluto in hard aspect to Mars:
You may feel strong, yet suppressed resentment at the control your mother exerts over you, and an equally strong need to retaliate. Past hurts are hard to forget, which creates the desire for vindication and conquest. Your competitive side and sexual energies are strong and can get out of hand, which can force you into precipitous action. The underlying feeling of this aspect is KILL OR BE KILLED.
Pluto in soft aspect to Neptune:
There is a positive psychic bond between you and your mother. Your spiritual side is active, and you have vision and insight.
Pluto in hard aspect to North and South Nodes:
The misuse of psychic energies in past lives can lead you to use manipulation and control in order to get your way. This can backfire. The inability to trust your mother and the fear of being controlled makes it difficult for you to trust.
THE FOURTH AND TENTH HOUSES
The fourth house relates to home, family and your deepest emotional security needs. It describes the parent to whom you look for the fulfillment of these needs. Traditional astrology gives the mother rulership over this house because she has been the nurturing parent, the one who stayed home and cared for the family. Today, though, mother often pursues a career, and it is father who provides the emotional security.
The tenth house rules your career, your public image and the authority figure(s) in your life. It is your father who teaches you how to get along in the world outside the home. As such, the tenth house traditionally relates to him.
There are no set rules as to which parent rules which house. Sometimes one parent fulfills both roles. Other times the parents reverse roles. Each chart must be analyzed individually to determine which parent rules the fourth and which rules the tenth.
The relationship between the fourth and tenth is important because your home, family and the security they give you determine how you will do outside the home. If you don't get what you need from one parent, you may turn to the other, who may or may not be able to fulfill your needs. Lack of emotional security in the home can lead to compensation in the career. The career, then, can become a parent replacement.
The signs on the cusps of the fourth and tenth houses add another dimension to understanding your parents. When trying to determine which house is which parent, it is helpful to exaggerate the descriptions enough to allow yourself to be able to make a distinction between the two.
Aries on 4th Cusp:
This parent puts him/herself first. He/she is impatient and irritable. This parent taught you that home and family come first.
Libra on 10th Cusp:
This parent is charming, diplomatic and puts others first. He/she taught you to be a go-between, an intermediary. Partnership is important to him/her.
Neptune in 10th house:
You do not see this parent clearly. He/she is either an inspiration or a disappointment; spiritual and giving, or martyred and living in a make-believe world. If the latter, he/she can escape into alcohol, drugs, food, etc.
THE ROVING DELEGATES
The signs represent principles to be learned. The house cusp on which a sign falls tells us the area of life in which that principle will be learned. Usually, the principle manifests in more than one area of life, since the ruler, or ROVING DELEGATE of that sign, carries the message to another house.
It makes no difference what sign falls on the cusp in question. We simply link the sign with its ruler's house position. For example, with Virgo on the fourth and Mercury in the eleventh, the ruler of the fourth is in the eleventh. The same thing is true if Taurus is on the fourth and Venus is in the eleventh. The same concept applies in each case.
The house in which the fourth or tenth house ruler falls gives us more information regarding that parent's messages.
Ruler of 4th house in 8th:
You have strong issues relating to home, family and security as a result of this parent's influence. You will, however, work through these issues. This parent gave you your sexual attitudes. He or she helps you see the other person's point of view. He or she helps you look beyond the obvious and investigate life's mysteries.
Ruler of 10th house in 5th:
The authority figure in your life taught you to have fun, be creative and/or have children. This parent may act like your child and may influence your children. You want to have fun and be creative in your career.
A FINAL WORD
Now that you've looked at your programming, you may be wondering if it will control you forever or if there is something you can do to change it, to move past it. There is. You can release it and yourself to God in complete faith and trust and just BE. When you come from BEING, you are coming from unconditional love. You see beauty everywhere. You are one with the whole and know that you are protected and loved.